Tribute ceremony to 'kind, sensitive' Ian Coulter in former parish

Canon Ian Coulter, who was the clergyman in charge of the Union of  Templemore, Thurles and Kilfithmone  churches passed away unexpectedly late last November. 

He had ministered to the parish since 2020 and was outstanding in his care, compassion and spiritual leadership. As Ian lived in Kilkenny and was Canon Treasurer of St Canice’s Cathedral his funeral service took place in St Canice’s at that time.

"His kind, sensitive nature always shone through in everything he did and nothing was too much trouble," was just one of the tributes paid at the service.

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In recognition of Canon Ian’s remarkable life and his great service to parishioners in this Union, a special memorial service was held in St Mary’s Church of Ireland in Templemore on Sunday, March 29.  

Daphne, Ian’s wife, Ailbhe their daughter, son in law Ross, his niece Edith and nephew Kenneth all attended. The large numbers in the congregation from across all denominations and from Kilkenny and Tipperary, reflected the great affection and esteem held by so many for Canon Ian.

This service was led by the Right Reverend Adrian Wilkinson, Bishop of Cashel, Ferns & Ossory, along with Archdeacon Alec Purser,  the Reverend Denis Sandes and Reader, Mr Tommy Cooke. 

Reflecting the deep respect and affection held by many beyond his own parishioners, the service was strongly supported by local Catholic clergy led by the Reverend Kieran O’Reilly, Archbishop of Cashel and Emly, Canon Conor Hayes, Templemore, and Fathers Jim Purcell and Vincent Stapleton, Thurles. 

The service featured selected readings, prayers and hymns. Children from the local parish school spoke of Canon Ian’s warmth and commitment and support.  Mr Raymond Stanley spoke movingly on behalf of all parishioners in the Templemore Union - his address follows.

As the service concluded Ailbhe Coulter expressed her family’s deepest thanks and appreciation and also spoke of the great happiness Canon Ian’s years of service in the local parish had brought to him. 

Mr Raymond Stanley added his words of tribute: "It was said to me recently that he was one in a million. Maybe that’s true, but I’m more inclined to think he was a one off, that there was nobody quite like him. He loved helping people whether that was with advice, encouragement or just being present in person.

"I know I speak for all the parishioners here in the Union when I say that it was a great honour and indeed a real privilege to have worked with Ian over the years."

Following the service, a plaque was unveiled alongside a tree in the churchyard to Ian’s memory. The event concluded by refreshments in the Templemore Arms.